Well this weekend was my daughters 12th Birthday...Planned a party with cousins that share the same birthday....Only because my child is an only child and their would be plenty of kids her age their and she would have fun...Well FH ask me why we where having the party at the cousins house and i explained to him why...That she would have more fun that way...Well he ask me 2 times this past week if party was cancelled?? and then pops up 30 minutes before the party and says "I dont have any clean jeans to wear" and then looks at me....He proceeds to get in the shower and i get my daughter and her friend and we leave his ass at the house...Of course he blamed me for leaving him, that he wanted to go...It doesnt take a genius to see that this man wanted nothing to do with the party....Oh but let it be one of his Darling Precious EX STEP KIDS that are grown and he is Johnny on the spot...Making sure they are specail...I was pissed...And i let him know it....But of course i was blamed for leaving him, and he was telling me he was going and that i left him....PLEASE!!!! Oh dont think for a minute when Ex step kids have a birthday or graduation..he takes them to dinners, gives them lots of money...and what ever else.....Sickens me....