I have been married for only a year but dated my husband for 3 years before the big day. He has two children currently ss7 and sd9. Together we have a 3 year old son. The children's mother is EXTREMELY difficult to deal with and believes yelling resolves everything. To top it off, my stepson was diagnosed with a mild form of autism/Aspberger's this last year w/ ADHD. He seems to be the opposite of what most autistic children are. He's overly touchy, kisses EVERYONE, is very loud and embarrassing (as bad as this sounds).