SO texted the dummy BM to ask if she wanted time with SD since its SD's bday next weekend she is with us. First of all he is being nice by offering but he is also just staying one step ahead of the dumbass. Because we already know that she will twist things around and bug us asking for time. So you would think she would just say yes right? No way that is too easy she has to check with SD and see what she wants to do. Well she texted back and said SD wants to spend 1/2 day with you and 1/2 with me so I will pick her up sometime in the afternoon I will have to let you know. Which is typical BM leave it all open ended so she has to call or text a million times to finalize details.

SO texted her back and said we are celebrating on Saturday which is why I offered you Sunday if you would like to pick up SD you can pick her up at 10:00 a.m. if not then you can see her at the regular time Monday after school. She responded back with fine I will pick her up then.

Love it SO is getting so good at handling her BS I am very proud of him Normally this would have been a week long issue of texts and calls discussing what time and where to pick up etc, etc.