"Sometimes I wish that someone had just told me to run the other way. Would I have listened? Probably not. I couldn't see his bad side then, we didn't date long enough really. He has two major drawbacks. First, he has a bad temper and a personality that is often patronizing, know it all, and abrasive. He shows little emotion.. sadness or what have you all looks the same as anger- usually. When he is not acting that way he is much better and over the years I have found my way with his calmer side and we manage.