I never smile at the misfortunes of others, but in this case, I'll make an exception. For years, evil BM did everything to make life as a stepmom difficult for me. Went out of her way to make sure the kids preferred her, spoiling them, her entire life revolving around their every need, and expecting the same of me, while at the same time denigrating me in their minds as a nobody (she once referred to me as a "third party). Tried to undermine my wedding. Well. She finally got over her years of post-divorce man-hating and began dating a couple years ago. Met a guy and has married him.