This is my first time doing anything like this but I am to the point that a little outside perspective can possible help. I just don’t know how to deal with some of the problems a blended family brings, mostly because I don’t come from one. I married my love of four years last year. We went through a lot to get where we are now. He has a 10 yr old daughter. I have two daughters, 8 & 10. We have a 1 yr old son together. My girls and our son live full time with us. Our oldest girls are in the same grade, same school and were actually best friends before we got together.