Hello all. Well I am a newbie but desperately need some advice. I have been reading everyone's blogs, but haven't seen anything such as my dilemma yet. I'm a SM of 3 SGs and we have one together. BM is a piece of work to put it nicely. BM is racist towards me and tries to place her thoughts on SDs. They know right from wrong and don't project that attitude in our home. The issue now is the oldest SG. Disrespectful to my DH and myself and has now gone to stay with BM. This hurts my DH as he loves his kid, but doesn't want things to be this way.