I need some help with respect. What do I do? I am there for the boys for everything. I even go out of my way to tear them away from electronics to do healthy thing things like reading. I take them hiking. I am even on their side to get pets. They end up fighting over who takes him out to the bathroom. I punish them by taking these things away. Then all of a sudden they give them back the things I take away because they can not stand to hear them whine. I need help!