I am a new mom of an 8 month old who is my whole world. I love being his mommy....here is where the problem lies. When he was just 3 weeks old my SD bio mom was arrested for drugs and she came to live with us full time. She is 10 and a HOTMESS. Her mother has signed off all of her rights and lives in some apartment 40 minutes away. I love my husband and he is a great daddy to our son but the relationships with his daughter if just weird. He feels like he has to be her hero...swoop in and save the day.