Anyone else experience a sudden disappearance the minute the biomom shows up?  Not from your Husband or the Kids, but suddenly, you seem to disappear to your husband and whomever Biomom is sleeping with and convincing she loves at the moment disappears to her?  

When I met my MIL the first time she seemed to be an amazing woman.  She asked me many questions, and as we were leaving I heard her whisper to my husband "She's a beautiful girl!"  I was so happy because I was very concerned that I should only enter a family where I was welcomed with open arms.  Well, when we were dating and I was doing all of the kids laundry and picking them up and watching them nonstop for his ex wife she adored me, or pretended to.  The first time I ever thought anything other than she approved was when we told them we were getting married.

Yesterday the court requests for not just my husbands financials, but mine, and my employees, as well came in.  Three years ago when we went to court she owed us child support, but we agreed to waive that, pay her 100 a month, and pay all medical because we wanted the kids safe and it gave us primary custody.  Now that we are going to court AGAIN (because of her pedophile boyfriend who she conveniently broke up with AGAIN), and we own our own business, she wants to see how much she can potentially get.  Now, we have always been honest, and she has always lied about income.

For five years we have been locked in a legal battle.  BM first married a guy for a week, had it annulled,  the. There was husband number three.  A man with a volatile temper.  He broke a tv in front of the kids by slamming it to the ground repeatedly, and spanked the oldest SS so hard he kicked him back in the genitals to get away.  Then (while still married to number three) she starts dating a convicted sex offender, and with every new love interest there is a paycheck and a move for the Steps.  That was just in a year and a half.