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Sons of narcissist mothers?

MrsZipper's picture

Anyone else just read wickedjess's blog? Did anyone see the site the therapist recommended?

https://www.sonsofnarcissisticmothers.org

This is the About us section:

I am not a therapist, psychologist or any kind of authority on the subject of narcissism. I am simply a man who has the experience of being the son of a narcissist and who wants to connect with and learn from others with a similar experience. I believe that, while narcissists divide to rule, victims of narcissism can take back the controls by uniting. Together we are stronger. Freedom is around the corner.

When I get reading material from a licenced therapist it's from, I don't know, a medical journal? Some organization who doesn't have Gmail as their contact address?

I have my doubts about the legitimacy of this therapist. But maybe this is normal?

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nengooseus's picture

Unfortunately, I find that there are lots of experts on parental narcissism who have absolutely no training or expertise in psychology. They research extensively, but have little or no actual training or education. For Pete's sake, one of the "foremost experts" is Sam Vaknin, who has literally no training in psychology.

MrsZipper's picture

She basically said DH took SS to a therapist without BM'S permission, SS told therapist BM didn't consent so therapist only talked to DH, and therapist diagnosed SS and said DH should take BM to court and go for custody or something along those lines because SS was disturbed. And she also said he was sleeping in the same room as his sister at BM'S and SD could have been abused I think, but wickedjess has a 1 bedroom apartment and the kids sleep in the living room. So until they get a bigger place not much can be done. The whole situation is strange.

Peridwen's picture

When the kids were in therapy, part of the initial forms stated that both parents had to sign off on sessions before you could even schedule an appointment. In the case of divorce a court order showing sole legal custody was required if both parents didn't sign the forms.

ntm's picture

In NY the NCP has to get the CP's permission for any mental health consultations. They can't even have any learning disabilities testing in school without CP's ok.

twoviewpoints's picture

I'm pretty sure all this cloak and dagger jazz complete with threats of exposure, is not what the usage of this site is meant for.

Seriously, ladies. Why not take all the drama to administration or, if indeed being harassed and/or threatened, to the proper authorities?

WalkOnBy's picture

well, that explains why tommar was banned. At least for one of the times.

How do you know that she contacted the BM? I mean, aside from what tommar told you...

Tuff Noogies's picture

hey lady! nice to see you again.

just ignore the drama. you're not missing anything by skipping right over. frankly it's gotten tiring to see, but i've disengaged kinda like one would do with atrocious skids!