CBM called cops on DH last night!!!
So DH gets SS every other weekend until we go to court to get a visitation and joint/full custody order. He talks to SS every day when allowed to and had done so this week up until Friday
He as usual texted CBM and let her know he would be there to get SS by 7p.m.
Why when DH showed up last night and knocked on the door did she call 911- He could hear the dispatch on the other line, she said, he is stalking and harassing me, my children are scared, he has no court order and is trying to kidnap my son!
What the f*ck?! I told DH to get in the car and LEAVE... He called the police station when he was well on his way home and explained the situation, they said she called back and canceled the 911 call and told DH everything she said, even though he heard most everything while he was on the porch, again she said to him when he was walking away- "I got you b*tch" I know we have to go to court and get everything on paper, but DH was so upset he couldn't see straight.. What do we do??? :jawdrop:
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How long until the court date? Sounds like a bad situation and I would have to think about it before I went back over there. What a psycho?
pay for a copy of the 911
tape! Use it against her! You will have to get it fast though as most places don't keep them for more than 30 days I think.
Try to
prove her insane. Call cell company and ask for detail bills, highlight all of calls made back and forth, then do the same for the texts. Ask if police would be willing to type out a incident report detailing the 911 dispatch and DH calling to report the info was false and he voluntarily left her premises.
Its clear shes doing this so he doesnt get custody. Shes trying to make him out to seem like the bad guy to use it agaisnt him so BE CAREFUL. She probably has more up her sleeve, and if he avoids her until court she might try to come after him. Document everything
I'm on it!
I am sure this is far from over, she is desperate
Just saying Hi
You can't rent space in my head, I reserve the right to evict you.
Hey MrsParks, I recognized your story from BMD. It's me Gemmani. This site is a great venting spot. I don't post here very often but I ALWAYS read the blogs. Plus these ladies have alot more experience than our friends in BMD when it comes to extreme drama.
Hey lady!
Yes.. I found it and it has been my little secret.. Everyone is right out there with EVERYTHING!!! How are you lady? Yes everyone here really seems to be ON IT!
Next time don't leave until the Police show up!
If he stays then the police have to fill out a report and that report could become the basis for a charge against BM for filing a false police report.
Nail her psycho ass to the wall and don't let her down until the the Judge is through filleting her publicly.
This kind of crap really chaps my ass. Almost as much as when my SS's BioDad and BioPaternalGrandMa play the "We did not know that we actually had to have him back on the last day of visitation, we thought he traveled the next day." The Judgment clearly states that he travels on the first and last day of visitation and travel time is on BioDad's calendar. Their idiotic manipulations made the kid miss school. He suffers from their stupidity not them and not my Wife.
Your Skids suffer from BM's idiotic false 911 calls. Next time call and file a complaint with the police of abuse of the 911 system. Also, carry a micro-cassette recorder in your pocket every time you are near BM. The next time she makes the idiotic comments and taunts your DH about getting him you will have it on tape and can play it in court to bare her ass even more in front of the judge.
Two can play the manipulation game and all your DH will have to do is keep his hidden recorder running while she hangs herself. He can be very reasonable in his response and bait her to keep spouting her toxic crap right in the microphone. That type of information is exactly what Judges will use to place the kid full time with your DH and nail her ass to the wall for CS.
We have recorded more than 10 years worth of telephone conversations with BioDad and SpermGrandMa and those tapes have come in very handy in beating them in to submission in court and keeping them compliant with the Judgement.
Stupid people don't know when to shut up so let them rant.
Grrr! Stupid people piss me off. AND THEY ARE ALL AROUND US! Especially in blended family situations it seems.
Good luck and best regards,
Thanks for the advice
We bought the recorder and are ready! Right now she won't let will not answer any of his texts, he simply sends once a day "Please have my son call me, thank you.
He doesn't call, so she can't take his phonecalls out of context and claim harassment, he thought of calling CPS today and telling them that he hasn't spoken to or seen his son and would like them to check on things, because the mother has a mental problem [bipolar] and is concerned.