BM's Dad called DH yesterday to see what was going on BM asked him for $750 to pay an attorney to take DH back to court for

contempt.
DH explained to BM's dad exactly what was going on, and he wasn't aware of "anything" involving the custody case. He doesn't have a good relationship with BM anyway, due to the way she is. DH actually took her dad a copy of the court order and guardian report as he lives pretty close to us. He was SHOCKED! Her Dad said that BM wants to take DH back to court for contempt and wants him to pay for it, but before he gave her the money she was asking for, he wanted to hear DH's story and even called his own daughter a liar among other things.Also we went and retrieved a police report BM drove to our city and made last week. There's a lot of false content in the report which I scanned and sent to our attorney, also we have just figured out that it looks like she is taking texts sent by DH and changing the content, then forwarding them to her mother and other third parties. DH is being accused of saying all kinds of things that I know he's not texting to her, because I looked at them! BM called yesterday to speak to SS and DH put him on the phone/speaker phone actually and she said.. "Hi, how are they treating you?, have they been hitting on you?" Who calls their 5 year old and says that. Her father asks and it's the same question I have.
WHEN IS THIS SH*T GOING TO STOP?!
It has never been about SS's best interest with BM, it's always been about her trying to get back and punish DH for leaving.
All this lying though.. What can I do aside from just continuing to document and send info to our attorney?

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Oh I wish she would try. She

Oh I wish she would try.
She asked her Dad for money to take DH back to court
and her Dad called my husband asking what was "really" going on,
because her story didn't seem right.
She told her dad we kidnapped SS and wouldn't bring him back.
SS started living with us last Wednesday.

She sounds really bitter and

She sounds really bitter and vengeful. I think you're doing the right thing though. Just keep documenting and keeping all of your records. IF she does take you to court (which I doubt she will) then you will have all of your ducks in a row and she will look like a butt head. And if she continues to talk to your ss the way she does, send him to a counselor. They will document what the child is hearing from BM and should you decide to go for full custody, you will have a better chance.