BM is going to cause me to have a nervous break down

We are trying to get custody of my DH's 5.5 year old who has many problems and is delayed, mostly due to BM's negligence..

Before we decided to go for full custody she agreed on
every weekend
all summer
spring break
winter break
every holiday

She really isn't interested in her children at all- she has 2 others and dumps them off every chance she gets..
Now we have rec'd a letter from her pro-bono attorney stating
that she wants to change some things, she now wants
2 weeks in each month of the summer =6 weeks
one weekend a month
every other holiday
and taxes every other year- claiming SS along with her other two
children would not give her any added benefit

SS needs to be in a school setting all summer due to his developmental delays, shuffling him back and forth-[we live 1.5 hrs away,] will not benefit him at all.

DH says to just ignore it, and we all knew shw would flip the script and come up with more b.s.

We have a really good relationship with SS's school teachers etc and they have sent a lot of info to our attorney concerning BM's conduct/neglect, we need a wish and a prayer on this one..

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Good Luck. I wouldn't trust

Good Luck. I wouldn't trust a darn word BM says. DH's ex wife agreed to every weekend, every other week in the summer, some holidays and that she would pay child support. Here we are 2.5 years later, over $14000 in arrears and she barely takes him 2 nights a month and rarely takes him on holidays (there was a 9 month span where she didn't see SS9 at all, and there was a 3 month span that she didn't even call). If you are going after full custody, just expect that you will be the full time parent without any help from BM.

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

Thanks guys lol... I just

Thanks guys lol...

I just hope the judge really sees what's going on.
SS is an emotional mess, he's back to peeing and poopin
his pants, bites his nails, keeps getting ring-worm from somewhere
although there are no other cases in his school or daycare

The psychologist wants to have him evaluated by an agency and BM won't sign off on it.. we can't sign off on it, because DH needs a court order to do so..

We know she really doesn't want him at all, but she may realize how bad it would look for us to have him all that time.. I think it's the child support to be honest.. she's as greedy as they come

I meant to put this in my

I meant to put this in my first post. TAKE A LAWYER.

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

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