So, I have been dating my fiance for over a year now, and have gotten along great with SD(7). The situation with her is that BM has primary custody, but allows open visitation. However, because my fiance has gone back to school and is working full time, he can only see SD on Saturday nights and Sundays. When we have her, we do everything we can to make her happy. Sometimes, I even go and pick her up myself if fiance is still working late. We go out to eat, go to movies, go bowling, us girls get pedicures; we bond alot, and get along great!!