Wife does not understand.. but.. my position as #2 behind her drug addict pile of shit son is over. What she doesnt get is that after all my warnings.. joking and smiling wont change a thing.. I will move out.. when I do.. once I pay rent on a new place.. Im gone forever. I wont go back even if the kid is gone- I wont forgive anyone who has consistently put me in second .. no third place.. I dont do third place well.