Hello all. I've been married to an amazing woman for 3 years. She has a 16 and 13 years 3 old who she really doesn't punish. She's constantly telling me if I have a problem with them I should punish them. Before me they lived in place to place due to her ex husband. We are constantly getting into arguments over her never punishing them and then getting away with murder. They are constantly manipulating her and I seem to be the only complaining. What should I do?