Hi Everyone, 

I'm new here and please forgive me if my English is not the best in the world. This forum, which I found quite literally by accident may have saved my life. 

So a bit of context, I'm a 34 year old man who's married to a 47 year old woman currently living in South Africa. She's got two grown kids from her two previous relationships, a 24 year (girl) and an 18 year old (boy). They both live with us and each have their own rooms but share a bathroom between themselves.