I don't even know where to start. I am a single mother of 2 boys ages 13 and 19. My boyfriend has been living with me for 3 years now. He has an 11 yr old son. At first the kids got along okay. then september of last year my 13 yo and his 11 yo had a little trouble getting along. So boyfriend says that his son didnt want to come to our house anymore and started staying at boyfriends mothers house. He said that he needs time to spend with his son and get him to try to come over here.