SS13 was just given back phone privileges after he was looking up inappropriate things on his phone. We told him that we would be checking his phone every day. So... last week he goes and plays at his friend’s house. That night we go to check his phone and see that he sent a pic of himself looking all gangster holding a pellet gun (looks completely real) to some girl. She didn’t respond positively. DH immediately calls BM because he is trying to be on the same page as her and guess what her response is: well don’t yell at him?