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Finally getting the ball rolling...

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Submitted by MommaXs2 on Tue, 03/29/2011 - 9:48am

DH and I met with a CS Enforcement Agent this morning to show her all the paperwork and evidence we had that SD12 is living with us full time and that BM is still receiving all the CS taken out of DH's check. The agent called the Family Court office and got validation that a modification had been filed, so she went ahead and began the process for CS Redirection which should take effect on May 1st.

And so..it continues

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Submitted by MommaXs2 on Sun, 03/27/2011 - 5:12am

DH texts BM to ask her why we haven't received his child support back in the last 2 weeks...and get this she texts him and says, "I have no children nor do I owe anyone child support."

Are you kidding me? Now you are saying that you don't have kids...you just gave this poor girl up 3 weeks ago, and already, you aren't claiming her?

Kinda Nervous...

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Submitted by MommaXs2 on Fri, 03/25/2011 - 5:17am

SD12,who has not spoke to her BM for over 3 weeks b/c BM wants nothing to do with her for 60 days so she has time to adjust, is going to spend the night with her Aunt, Uncle (BM's brother), and cousins tonight.

Aunt and Uncle are totally for SD12 living full time here b/c quite honestly they both feel that BM is absolutely psycho and should have no parenting rights whatsoever. They have not spoke to BM in MONTHS, so I'm not really sure why I'm kind of anxious/nervous for her to go...

Any suggestions?

Go figure..HaHa

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Submitted by MommaXs2 on Thu, 03/24/2011 - 2:09pm

So DH emails BM a copy of SD12's current grades (since she has switched schools) that we copy/pasted from Edline while we're waiting for official copy of 3rd 9 weeks report card. BM has been texting DH wanting to know how SD12 is doing, but refuses to talk to SD12 until after May 1st (see previous blog for her reasoning behind this).

BM emails back with, "Those probably aren't even her real grades. Your wife probably bribed the teachers she works with to give her those grades. There is no way she went from all D's and F's to all A's and B's"

Long-awaited Return

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Submitted by MommaXs2 on Wed, 03/23/2011 - 4:24am

After about a year of staying away from Steptalk, I'm back with a new username and a new attitude toward my life.

Here's some background...Been married to DH for 3 1/2 years. We have a BD3, and I have a SD12. In the past, I was ready to completely disengage or leave because things were so bad between me, SD12, and the BM. Even being a mother myself, I couldn't understand some of the things the psychopath (BM) did. I told some major horror stories, and I could go on for HOURS telling them again...but...