:? I'm a mother of a 4 year old and a 5 month old and I have an 11 year old stepson, my stepson does not live with us but with his mother and she's the type that if something you say doesn't sit right with her she'll keep him from us. My husband works and when get my stepson on the weekends and i'm the one home with the kids all the time, they love playing in the yard and with cars.