My SD just broke my heart. She only gets 4 invitees to grad (covid-19 pandemic 2020 style). I'm not invited & it really, really hurts. I have no one in my life I can share this with. I have been her "bonus MOM" since she was 6. We had a great relationship until she moved in full time with her Mom when she was 15. During the last 3 years her Dad & I have been made into monsters, although we have done literally nothing except let her know she's still welcome. Everything about her interactions with us has become toxic.