I am having problems with my husband to the point we are talking about divorce because he will not discipline his child. Every time my SS ( who is 14) does something bad, he basically slaps his and says no. For example, my SS went to a friends house and drank a WHOLE bottle of vodka and my husband just " talked " to him about it. I talked to my husband and told him we should ground him. That this is serious, he could have ended up in the hosptial or worst. My husband said that it is his kid and he will do it how he wants and for me not to worry about it.