My BF finally saw how SD5 acts after she comes from spending several days with his mom and aunts. I've told him before she is a terror after she stays with them and has to be reprogrammed. He didn't believe me she was that different and he got to see it this week. SD5 was with her grandmother and 2 aunts from Friday the week before until Tuesday last week on fall break. They baby her and give her everything she wants. The one aunt will start to cry and bawl when she has to leave. I get they have helped raise her the last 5 years and it is hard letting a child go.