I understand that children can be difficult and having five now three of them being step kids it's really difficult to understand exactly what my role is in regards to their care and their behavior. It seems like on a weekly basis we are always struggling with the two oldest boys my son has OCD and some PTSD from my previous marriage to his dad which was extremely abusive and volatile however after a lot of counseling he was able to regain his visitation and that lasted for about two years until I had to take him back to court which we are still in court.