BM has no money to live on her own, provide medical insurance for skid or pay medical bills to us or to facilities but she is able to drive skid 4 hours to california and go to the san diego zoo for a whole weekend? A whole weekend in california means gas, motel, food and activites!! what a joke. While DH and I pay $600 a month for family insurance and OWN our home and pay medical bills in FULL. It makes me sick