SS spends all but one weekend a month with BM. DH and I think it's better when he is away because for the most part it's quiet from BM. These past two weeks has always been something from her. It's almost like she feels that if she doesn't email or text DH that he will forget about her or that DH is actually living his life finally. The first week it was about baptism and how DH scares skid and blah blah blah. This week it's that DH neglects the cough that ss has and now it's an upper respiratory infection. She claims she finally had to take him cuz DH didn't and if the medicine isn't given then it's negligence and blah blah blah.

Upper Respiratory Infections, if she were to do her homework, for the most part go away on their own after its taken its course. SS isn't having trouble breathing, no fever, sleeps well at night and isn't lethargic at all. At our house he sleeps with vicks and a humidifier in his room as well as one that is in the living room. He sleeps through the night with minor minor coughing and isn't sent home from school from the cough.

We think BM hates taking SS to doctor because then she is responsible for the payment. She always pushes it off on DH and then when he doesn't do it then he doesn't care about his son and what a bad father he is. She lies about what she hears from stepson. She tells DH that ss didn't sleep and was so tired at school. Well we both know that's a lie cuz DH sleeps on the couch most of the time and never hears ss cough or wake up, plus if ss was that uncomfy sleeping he needs to grow a set and come tell DH and get some cough medicine. It's pathetic the stories BM comes up with. I don't know who she thinks she is trying to get sympathy from. Im sure it's her game because she thinks we are going to court soon so she lies and makes up issues to show the judge.

I work at a hospital and see these coughs all the time. They are viral and antibiotics don't fix them. Giving too many antibiotics makes the kid resistant after awhile from the germs so it actually hurts them more in the long run. BM doesn't get that maybe ss should stay home and not do all the back and forth exchanging going from our cold weather to her warm weather. She also needs to learn to write a simple email or text like "ss went to doctor. has infection. taking antibiotics." SIMPLE EASY!!!! That's how our emails look when having to tell her anything or we let ss tell her because it's what he did that day.

BM acts like we don't get that the antibiotics needs to be taken through the week. She says DONT FORGET so many times. Yes woman we can read and obviously if there is still more in the bottle he will take it with him to your house. DUH DUH DUH. See not only does BM think she is a lawyer but she thinks she is a doctor and an amazing mom. I highly doubt she has a humidifier in her ant pesticide infested house.