I met my husband 5 1/2 years ago and immediately fell in love. We talked on the phone for the first couple of weeks almost every night. I knew he had a son and I knew the BM was not involved at all. When I first met my SS I thought he was the most adorable kid I had ever met. My SS and I were inseparable until my husband and my SS moved in with me. Ever since, my life has been horrible. My SS has extreme ADHD and goes days without any sleep. At first, I just ignored his sleepless nights but then my husband started working the night shift.