Graduation updates.
So I call SO this morning and ask him what's up with the graduations (SS17 high school and SD14 8th grade) because I was making my schedule out for that week. He hasn't gotten any other emails so I told him to call school and see what the deal is... if it's just for under the tent 2 tickets etc.
He calls me back and says strictly two for the middle school. I ask about high school.. he didn't call there. OKK. So I ask him what he wants me to do? Meaning: take both days off just to be home, take Tuesday to help SD say, whatever the case. For more info: I'm normally off Wednesday's and that's the high school and SDs is Tuesday at 10am. What does he do.. starts stumbling his words...
Now! This might be me overreacting a bit BUT, I instantly get pissed when he starts stumbling his f'n words. THIS MEANS he is nervous about the whole BM situation and shit.
Also, his friends wife told me Friday that SO said to her that he didn't want to get stuck with BM. UMMMM WHY WOULD HE GET STUCK WITH HER?! She was just shaking her head and was like I don't understand.. She then said SO will be really stupid to lose you because of the hold BM still kind of has on him. YEPP!
So I am all like whhhatttt doooo youuu wannntt meee tooo dooo.??! He has no answer. I just said I'll figure it out ok byeeee.
I've tried for a long time now to be understanding, accepting, but, also blunt with him about this anxiety shit about BM. Not for nothing he use to fight me about not kissing her ass and after ALL the shit I've done and gone through with him still some weird part of him gets all stressed about these small situations. Like dude... it's not complicated. She sits next to you.. you MOVE. I highly doubt she would follow him if he were to move.
For real, since I'm not going to be there to protect him she will probably try and take a f'n selfie with the 3 of them at each!! I wouldn't put it past her. She's a selfie queen...
All I know is that SO better get it together and keep his boundaries for these events.
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Middle school = two tickets
Middle school = two tickets
Is DH sure he is even getting one?
My situation is reserve. BM
My situation is reserve. BM is lucky SHE gets one. Skids live with us 100% full time for over 3 years now. Before that she was EOWE for 6/7 years.
I'd say you don't make any
I'd say you don't make any plans to help out and let him deal with it.
I took both days off. I haven
I took both days off. I haven't told him yet.
Yeah he needs to pull it
Yeah he needs to pull it together! Meth Mouth and GrandHag used to pull this kind of sh*t! They would show up super late to events and then try to sit next to us or near us, it was irritating as hell and most times we would just ignore them. One of Spawns last dance recitals GrandHag showed up and sat down right next to DH he glared at her and said very loudly "Are you kidding me GrandHag, find another seat!" She looked absolutely shocked for a few moments then got up and shuffled off, like nope we are not your friends, there is no friendly interaction here.
BM is ALWAYS late are right
BM is ALWAYS late are right when things are about to start. I don't have one memory of her showing up to anything before us. LOLL good for DH to stand up to grandhag.
Every situation is different.
Every situation is different. For SS now 28's HS graduation, DH and I and BS attended. BM, SD and BM's mom attended as well. We sat nowhere near each other. And before graduation, BM was making a HUGE stink about me attending. DH told her to EFF off, SS lived with US and I was the main reason the kid graduated to begin with, so I had every right to be there. She was furious, but in th eend she could do nothing about it. Graduation was in our state, in our town, SHE had to travel to get there. If I were you, if you have no interest in SS, don't bother going. If you have an interest in SD go to hers. call the school, explain that you need an extra ticket because you are offering a ticket to the BioMom even though the kids live with you. The school will understand and will more than likely give you the extra ticket.
I highly doubt school will
I highly doubt school will give extras SO said she seemed pretty strict with the two but, if they some how we got an extra one for me.... Holy hell BM would flip out for sure haha!
I think the high school is only two also. I'll confirm that tomorrow.