i wanted to send this ouT to all the ladies on here, i think that this is a great site with a lot of wonderful people on here using this as an outlet to realease some of the stresses of life...As we approach this thanksgiving day holiday i wanted to first say i hope you all have a safe and happy thanksgiving....now i want each of you to cherish where you are in life, even though our situations seem messed up, there is a reason that GOD has us here, so lets not be mad about our current situation lets embrace it and be thank ful that we are still alive...i have made a new vow to not let things stress me out as much as they do, i have and will turn over a new leaf, i will love my DH even in his imperfect ways and show him everyday how thank ful i am....i want all of you on here to do the same, lets not be a statistic and fall to the easy way out by divorce...LetS not let our BM even though we know they are crazy consume our daily talks, walks and thoughts of life....so as we celebrate thanksgiving, i want to say to all, whatever you are stuggling with LET IT GO because like the ladies say around these parts, bitterness, a harden heart, being mean, being upset, a women scorned, being mad at the world AINT CUTE....love your DH when you see him give him a big hug and a kiss for no other reason other than he is your man, plus it takes so much less to smile and be happy than to frown and be sad, we all have a choice what we want to do everyday, so chose to be happy.....

A BIG PART OF GETTING THRU A STRUGGLE IS YOU LETTING IT GO....MUCH LOVE LADIES....