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This weekend

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This weekend SD9 made all star basketball team and we have to travel 240 miles for the weekend. I cant make the trip because I am framing our new master bathroom and making the team came as a suprise this morning. My wife calls me at work and asks if i would have a problem with her and ex husband going in on a hotel room together and sharing a room with the girls. I flipped out and she call me imature and said i dont trust her and so on. Am i making to much of this?

Texting a Calling

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I get home yesterday and wife is on phone. I thought she was talking to her sister as she was laughing and joking for about 30 mins. When she was done i ask how her sister was and she said it was her ex. I got pissed. Im tired of all the calls and texts. On saturday the girls were with him and we put the baby down for the night and sat down for a movie. He kept texting so i just stopped the movie and started doing other things. She blew up and said I need to get over it because they said noone would every come between their friendship. She said no man not even her father would.

Valentines Day

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So on Valentines Day I went out and got my wife and sd11 and sd9 all matching diamond ear rings. Later that night I gave them there gifts and caught hell. I was told by my wife that a real man doesnt wait till the day of to go out and get last min things. It pissed me off. Then the girls dad which says he is having a hard time making it on his pay check and hasnt paid child support ever gives the girls 150 each. I am not pissed about him doing for his girls but hell its no secret hes holdng back. My wife wont make him pay. She says he does enough by seeing them on the weekends.

need some help

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I Have to step kids 9 and 11 girls. Last night sd11 tells mom that she wants to sleep in our bed not her own and to have me sleep on the floor. I said noway. At this point she wants to get all attitude with me and tell me its her moms choice. Its hard to keep my cool. Later i tell my wife that when our bathroom room is complete we are going through a remodel that our room and bathroom if off limits. Im so tired of them just coming in whenever they want to get whatever they want. I feel we need a nice private place to relax while they have free reign over the rest of house.