I have 3 skids who as of 12/30/2011 live with us full time. I have been in their lives for 7 yrs. The BM has been on a full time campaign to make them hate me. the two older ones 11 and 14 know what a Psycho she is. The issue is the younger 9 yrs old one has been told that I am the devil and I am the reason they are not living with her. Believe me we had a pretty sweet life without 3 skids in the house full time. The 9 yr old skid is really torn since the BM has consistently lied to him about his Dad. He can't handle the fact that his MOM is the devil incarnate.