I have a 3 year old bd, 2 ss and,3 sd. The 2 sd and the ss are older. I only see the oldest ss who is 20 and comes over 1 day a week because he works,has a car and is responsible. The the one sd is a junior in high school and I rarely see her .The other sd started a new job and so I never see her. The 15 year old ss and 9 year old sd come regularly. Their mom is so busy traveling,spending stimulus and childsupport. She barely does anything accept lie and tell the kids she is working alot. My fiancé and I do everything for the kids.