I am a stepmom of stepkids..my husband got custody of his step daughters and his son almost 3 years ago. We had only been married 1 year before we had to go to court over the childrens mother. It was proved that mom was a very unfit mother in everyway. After his oldest had started to be involved with mom again she started to change.Daughter started tu use drugs and smoke..did bad in school.She is sneaking around to see mom..getting drunk and high with her. Even plotted with mom to kidnap siblings.