I have a 9 year old SD who came to live with us in Aug. 09 due to her BM schedule and I cant take it! The problem isnt her, its me and I dont know what to do. My SD is such an excellent kid and I know she loves me so much but I cant stand her sometimes, well pretty much all the time and its totally unprovoked! I have days where I love her and want to be around her and then other days where I cant even look at her. I have been dealing with these feelings since the first day I met her 6 years ago.