I am so glad to find this site! I have a SS10 and SS7 and an amazing husband. The only downfall is the BM. It is amazing that most SM's have the same type of person to deal with in a BM. I can't believe the courts and CSS can't see this! Ours is a story of her withholding the kids from DH and then being pissed off when he moved to my city and saying he "left his family". BS.