Okay, well I am new to this but I need to get it out even if it doesn't get read by anybody. I might have to make this a multi series blog as there are alot of things on my mind and I have a 16 month old daughter. So I am married to a man who has 2 children (17 & 19). We have been together for 2 1/2 years and have a wonderful little girl who is 16 months. My hubby had a very bad divorce (got and still does get almost everything taken away, including the children.