I love my SS I do he’s 9 I’ve been in his life since he was 3. I thought it would get easier the older he got. I know he had his problems with the ADHD and learning disability. And I can handle that it’s his mom influence it’s her voice and words and attitude coming off of him that I can’t handle. It’s her using him and him being her pawn. I just can’t take it anymore I just want to stop being his mom. Because I don’t want to start hating him. But he says things and has such an attitude and I can’t say anything to him without him having an attitude.