BM: "He was mine first."
BMs go-to line is "You feel so special, he was with me first and everything he says to you, he has already told me." No maam! He learned what he was supposed to stay away from and the reason why he was with you is because you were easy. A young small-town boy getting what he could at the time. Then went out into the world and realized not all women were insecure, phycopathic, and controling. Oh and another, "He is MY babydaddy!" Ok. Keep claiming him like you still want him. He addresses you as the mother of his son, or by name, as a person who is only in the picture for one reason and that reason only. Not as his [anything].
Is it really so hard for BMs to let go of the past and realize that the only reason men still have any kind of contact with them is because of their child? Is it so hard for them to just pass the phone to the kid instead of making remarks about the new wife? Or how about not messaging me blaming me when he tells her he wont jump at her commands and to take a hike. She stops for a while then starts again when something upsets her. It would make me extremely happy to curb stomp her and shut her up for good. *sigh*
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BM famous line was "He will
BM famous line was "He will do whatever I say because I have his kid" yeah that didn't work out the way she thought }:)
How on earth did you even end
:jawdrop: How on earth did you even end up in a convo with BM about this??
She found me on FB, even
She found me on FB, even before my husband and I were married, and likes to message me when she gets mad. Ive blocked her but she made another profile. And sometimes she even texts my husband addressing me. Shes a weirdo like that.
I used to get all of that
I used to get all of that crap from BM too. Used to make me laugh. The best one was one day BM came to pick SS up, I was cleaning house and had on an old tshirt of DH's. A few days later BM was yelling at me for something (stupid I am sure) and she threw in "I BOUGHT him that tshirt you were wearing for Valentines day". So I replied "that explains why he gave it to me to clean our toilets in then, doesn't it?".
I never let her get away with her comments like that. Always have to make her looks stupid. One time she told DH that he left her because he *thought* the grass was greener on the other side, he replied "it is, and it's thinner, and prettier, and more intelligent... shall I go on?" BTW, he DIDN'T leave her for me... but she blames me for the fact that he didn't eventually go BACK to her.
Lol I would crack up if crazy
Lol I would crack up if crazy ever said that!!! But of course, she is so stupid that she "claims to be glad not to be with him", yet she still, 12+ yrs later writes crap like " my mom always told me to get rid of my used toys and give to the less fortunate"... lol Idiot! He left you. IDIOT! If you are so glad, why is he still on your mind? Bigger IDIOT! By saying such things about the father of your daughter, you have destroyed HER self-esteem! And crazy idiot, while you lived in a sh€•°€thole and ran the streets in your town, were raised by the town w%&&$&re, slept with anything that walked or crawled and dropped out of school..."I" the less fortunate grew up in a very nice neighborhood, got top grades, was the girl every hs boy looked for when they finished college to MARRY because they knew i had not slept w/ the entire school and had a nice career, traveled to Japan, Argentina, Singapore and many other places with my company...so the less fortunate i guess you mean "the one that didn't have 30 other guys to compare my DH to when it came to sex... lol
"Oh there's other things he's
"Oh there's other things he's called you first as he's never called me the horrible names he uses for you now." I'd have to lie if I said that as DH will not say one negative thing about BM ever which pisses me off royally.
BM thought she was something special because she has a college degree (pitiful little school) in a science field and is almost ten years younger.
Pisses her off that I have multiple degrees in science and engineering from literally one of top 5 schools in the country. Oh and I look 10 years younger than her.
Funny, I have a feeling it
Funny, I have a feeling it drives CRAZY absolutely CRAZY because she can't be on of those that says "my husband left me for a young bimbo"...lol Since of course, anyone is smarter than her... lol and yes, I am 100xs smarter...but I am not only OLDER than HER, but I am older than DH lol and I still look a heck of a lot better than crazy...her a$$ is as wide as a freaking trailer...