My oh my SD9 is really grinding my gears this past month... just 1 thing after the other. To make matters worse parents are supposed to be backing each other and not letting the kids play us against each other... in this house Grandma and Grandpa are raising the kids too. One minute I'm being told that I need to be her parent and then anything I say get's trampled all over this kid is going to be a nightmare when she is a teenager never mind all the emotional trauma she has been through...