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Submitted by Madilyn on Wed, 11/04/2009 - 6:56pm

BM is avoiding communication with DH and I. The last few times DH or I have texted/called, BM does not respond. We contact her or the step-dad only if it's necessary. A text was sent to BM and step-dad both 3 days ago about an important change pertaining to the up-coming week-end DH and I have SD's. The last few times when neither BM or step-dad responded, we called once more, which we feel uncomfortable "hounding" them. BM finally had SD9 call to address the issue. DH and I do not feel it's right to put "a child" in the middle to communicate issues BM, DH or step-parents should address...

Can anyone recomend a great blog for parents/mom's raising teen daughters??

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Submitted by Madilyn on Wed, 10/28/2009 - 12:33pm

Hey SM's. Hope your having a good day so far today! I'm looking for a specific blog site "raising teen daughters"

I've been a member of this site almost a week now and I tell ya... ITS A GOD GIVEN GIFT!!! This is my first time to be a member of a blog. Those of you that have taken the time to give advice I can't thank you enough!

Am I wrong???

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Submitted by Madilyn on Thu, 10/22/2009 - 3:24pm

Need opinions, I'm a little confused with BM. DH and I register (with consent from BM)SD for softball. At the time BM's work hours were 3pm-11pm which made it impossible for her to transport SD to and from games, we totally understood, therefore SM and DH not only offer to provide transportation (it would be me most of the time, my schedule is the most flexible), equipment and cost for everything pertaining to softball. Before the 1st game BM changed jobs. She now works 7am-3pm. Games are once a week and after 6pm. BM's new job is literally 2 min from her hm.

How can a SM nicley say "NO" to BM???

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Submitted by Madilyn on Thu, 10/22/2009 - 3:36am

My SD's mom will often ask "me" to keep the kids when they are sick or want me to take them to the Dr (while she went shopping) I wouldn't mind if she had to work or something important came up and she "had no other choice" Here lately she refuses to take her own daughter to her softball games and told me that my husband and I need to make arrangements to get her to and from. She's not at work during games, she's off and at home. My SD's game is ONCE A WEEK!