I have been married for almost 10 years now. His son moved in with us 8 months after we got married. His bio mom said that my husband could have him since he was married as long as she didn't have to pay CS. So that's how that went. I've had to leave work early to pick him up from school, take him to appt's ... etc. When she was asked it was always no. Now he is 20 years old and the most disrespectful lazy person I know. I have a bad back and he won't even mow the lawn. He expects me to do it because he works 2-3 days per week and I am unemployed.