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Cheating BM with No License

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Submitted by Lulubelle on Tue, 03/24/2009 - 1:59pm

Ok, so last night I once again tried to play peacemaker for the benefit of the children involved. It turned out to be a waste of my time. So the redhead of me came out today.

I told BM how I truly felt about her sorry butt. I made sure to mention how she doesn't pay child support, doesn't help out with anything financial or medical with the kids and that the only thing she's focused on is her love life.

She complained that I had no business to know about her suspended drivers license and that she doesn't see the problem.

Confronting BM

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Submitted by Lulubelle on Mon, 03/23/2009 - 9:53am

Ok, so I try to confront BM with the fact that we know her license has been suspended since 2005. We tell her that we need to speak to her and the kids step-dad at the same time since the car is in his name and we want him to be fully aware of the consequences. She hangs up on me not wanting to discuss it.

ANOTHER QUESTION - Court Orders for transportation

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Submitted by Lulubelle on Thu, 03/19/2009 - 1:50pm

I'm the SM of 3 Skids. I have pretty much been the primary mom for most of their lives. 3 years ago the BM took us to court for standard visitation rights, she wanted tax exemptions, she wanted a decrease of child support (She's only obligated to pay $180 per month for 3 kids), and she wanted us to provide all transportation for visitations. She lives 40 minutes away.
The judged denied everything except he ordered that we provide 50% of the transportation. We have diligently followed the court order to a tee since then.

NEED ADVICE

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Submitted by Lulubelle on Thu, 03/19/2009 - 8:16am

I am a SM of 3 children. (SD16, SD13, SS10)My husband and I have sole custody and the BM has visitation rights. My husband has made a decent living the last few years so we have not made a big deal about not receiving child support from the BM. My husband was laid off in January and since then I have asked the BM to help out with expenses such as: drivers training costs, sports fees, and clothes. She just ignores my requests. BM is currently several thousand dollars in arrearages.