I've been on this site reading post for over a year now but this is my first time posting.  I've been with my wife for almost 16 years now.  Her son was about 1-1/2 years old when we first started dating.  His father died when he was three years old and i've been the only father he really knows.  I guess it would make more sense to start at the beginning but considering the day I've had I'm just going to start current and maybe back track on future posts.  Among the myriad of problems my wifes 17 year old has drugs is one of the larger ones.  We've been consistantly testing him every month.