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ONE THING ALL BM'S REPRESENT....

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Wed, 12/26/2012 - 10:54am

It just occurred to me as my not fiancee in my mind anymore was writing these ass kissing reminiscent texts to BM. The BM has such power because she represents "the original family" intact. The kids and mom and dad. All of them together. I swear I think my significant other during this Christmas holiday was dreaming of them getting back together and all being together again. I listened as he picked up the boys and was chatting to his xwife and daughter at the door. He was just in heaven for like five minutes. THEY ARE HIS PEOPLE! IT WILL ALWAYS BE THEM. its does not matter that I am smarter and skinnier and prettier then his xwife....and that his daughter is a spoiled crazy psycho. THOSE ARE HIS PEOPLE, AND TO HIM..THEY ARE THE BEST. HE WOULD RATHER HAVE THEM THEN ANYONE ELSE IN THE WHOLE WORLD AND THERE IS NOTHING I CAN EVER DO TO CHANGE THAT. IT'S ALWAYS BEEN THEM AND IT WILL ALWAYS BE THEM.

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Wed, 12/26/2012 - 10:57am

I know lots of people are sick of my story...I am too. But I am in a HELL of a lot of pain right now. I am very stuck. I don't know how to leave this situation. I am paralyzed. And scared. And hurt. And this has been a horrible experience.

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Wed, 12/26/2012 - 11:01am

I keep reading as another one bites the dust. It's so eerie. It's like foreshadowing and I feel myself waiting until it will be my day to come on here and post that left. I can just feel it....and its only a matter of time. And I am scared to death.

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Submitted by not2sureimsanea... on Thu, 12/27/2012 - 7:10am

Not all. The BM in my life was only a fling, never "family" although she tried to instill herself as one and got royally denied by SO with a warning to his mother, brother and brother's wife that if they chose to bring her into the fold, he will never see or speak to them again.

I'm sure you've been told many times that you need to leave. Your situation is pretty bad and any sane person would look at it and wonder why you stay. It doesn't matter for finances or whatever, there is no reason to waste your life on him. You'll regret it.