i recently moved in with my older boyfriend when things got serious. he has 2 kids (boy 15 grl 12) with his ex-wife and i am so irritated when we have them. His daughter is so jealous tht i took all of his attn away & now tells him she hates me & tht we r just a fling. i think she thinks i am her friend & doesn't respect me. i have to ask her multiple times to do small tasks. my bf does stand behind me with stuff like tht tho which is great! i think his ex puts crap in their head when she has them.