Sorry it's so long just want to try to fit as many facts in as possible...Just wondering if anyone else has been/are in the spot we are in and how they dealt with it. My husband and I have been married for over a year together almost 3 he has a 9 yr old daughter from a previous marriage. He and BM have been divorced for 5 years which she kept SD away from him for 5 months in the beginning but came around and when the papers where signed he got his visitation. He has always payed his CS on time and even gave more than ordered along with other things SD needed.