Ok, so I end up feeling like a monster over this, but my stepdaughter is a nightmare. We only see her two days a month but sometimes I pray that she doesn't want to come over because I know what's in store for us. She was a product from an accident. Her mother was slutting herself around my husband's family trying to get pregnant and my husband was the winner. He feels obligated to take care of his daughter because his mother is close to their family. She is only 4 but is rude and has absolutely NO manners what so ever.