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Finally, a nice holiday!

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I know that many of us routinely have terrible holidays, and believe me, I've had my fair share of them! However, this year was one of the nicest holidays I've had in years and years. Low-key, fun, and best of all it was stress-free.

Not what I would have expected given the fact that earlier this year my mother passed away. My sister took flight and went away to her inlaws to cope with her sadness about us not having my mother for the holidays. But I stayed at home, hosted my father and a close family friend and had a great time.

So, is this progress?

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A few weeks ago, my stepchild was away for the first time in a long time. In fact, SC hadn't been away in roughly 1.5 years.

In past years, when SC has finally gone on a trip or visited BM, I've been close to shouting from the rooftops with near delirious joy. But this time? I barely noticed SC's departure. I was completely neutral about it.

So, I've been left wondering these past few weeks: is this progress?

I like to think so.